Living with a Libra can present enormous challenges, especially when you take into context the fact they are vain, attention grabbers and prone to jealousy. These traits can create even greater problems in a Libra/Libra relationship where both parties possess the same strong traits. This doesn’t mean anyone who lives with a Libra is going […]
Living with a Libra can present enormous challenges, especially when you take into context the fact they are vain, attention grabbers and prone to jealousy. These traits can create even greater problems in a Libra/Libra relationship where both parties possess the same strong traits. This doesn’t mean anyone who lives with a Libra is going to face problems in the relationship, but it is important to understand the challenges you are likely to face and be prepared to work with those challenges effectively.
One of the most endearing qualities you are likely to discover about your Libra mate is the tendency to be very loving and affectionate. Unlike many other people, Libras are quite demonstrative and don’t care if other people see them showing their feelings. Of course, if you are the type of person who doesn’t like to be subjected to public shows of affection, you may find this quality less than endearing. On the other hand, Libras also demand a great deal of attention, so you will find it going in both directions. Even if they are not physically showing you attention, their body language will provide the answers you need and help you know from the onset how they feel.
You do need to be careful in the things you say and do around a Libra, however, because they are very sensitive and take everything you say very seriously. While you might say something that is less than positive and mean it in a joking way, your Libra may not realize you are not serious, something that can cause a breakdown in communications and even a serious misunderstanding. Libras are very vain and sensitive, and they have a need to be the center of attention at all times. In order to keep the lines of communication open and keep your relationship alive you must understand how to deal with these characteristics in an effective and loving manner.
Vanity and jealousy can be the breakdown of any relationship; since both of these characteristics are very strong in a Libra, you have to know how to handle them. One of the easiest ways to prevent conflict is to avoid doing anything that might trigger jealousy. Your Libra wants to know he or she is the center of your world and that no one else can tear that apart. Any deviation from your normal affectionate nature can trigger feelings of insecurity, so always leave your work problems at work so when you are home, your attention is focused on your mate.
On the positive side, Libras are very nice people and care very deeply about their friends and loved ones. If you bring them into a room full of tension, they will quickly make everyone feel at ease. The key is to work with the positive traits and downplay the negative ones in order to keep your relationship going strong. It can be challenging at times, but the longer you remain in the relationship, the easier it will become.