One of the first things you must learn is a Capricorn is very ambitious and driven. This means his goals of success will come ahead of everything—sometimes even family and friends. Do not expect you will be able to change him but rather support him in everything he does. Provide guidance and suggestions to help […]
One of the first things you must learn is a Capricorn is very ambitious and driven. This means his goals of success will come ahead of everything—sometimes even family and friends. Do not expect you will be able to change him but rather support him in everything he does. Provide guidance and suggestions to help him along the way but do not demand his stop what he is doing to spend time with you and/or the family and friends. There is no quicker way to drive a wedge between you and a Capricorn man than for him to think you consider his success an inferior part of his life.
Capricorns do not like to socialize which can sometimes make them appear unfriendly or even snobbish. This can turn some people off, especially if you are in the position of attempting to meet someone who just happens to be a Capricorn. It may be better to attempt to meet him on his own turf where he is comfortable. The tendency for him to be a loner may drive him away from those settings that may create a crowd; his sense of ambition may lead him into those settings that may put him in touch with others of like minds.
You don’t want to make a Capricorn feel as though you are diminishing his need for success and monetary gain. These are not the result of materialism but rather because the Capricorn equates money and success with self-sufficiency and security. He believes the more money he has and the higher he rises on the ladder of success the better his chances are of being able to provide for his needs and those of his family in the future.
Never force a Capricorn into a situation where he feels uncomfortable or attempt to make him into something he is not. You want to allow him to choose when he feels comfortable in social settings or with other people which is not usually during those times when he is attempting to work on a recent goal. If you have your own goals, take the time he is working on his to work on some of your own. This will help draw you closer to him because you will be able to share a common bond. In addition, Capricorns tend to mingle with those on the same intellectual level, so you are more likely to attract a Capricorn if you show some ambition as well.
Capricorns tend to suffer from a number of health issues including problems with stiff joints, arthritis, rheumatism and various other orthopedic problems. The problems may result from their driven nature that prevents them from obtaining the relaxation and exercise they need to keep their bodies in top condition. You should attempt to encourage him to relax and take time to make sure his body is healthy, but you can’t do it for him. Do not force it on him but if he sees you are doing something positive he is more likely to join you.