Sagittarius selfish or carefree
Positive nature: They have an optimistic attitude which also attracts good fortune to them. They are also good at making excellent friends.
Vibrant personality: They have a personality which is free like a bird. They love to be independent. Freedom matters to them a lot.
Detached: They are emotionally very strong and they do not like to talk about their feelings. They like to move on, as feelings hold them back. They are straightforward and expect the same in return.
Selfless: They never expect anything in return for their kindness or favours which they do for their friends or loved ones. They also never experience passiveness or jealousy and do not like to interfere in anybody’s plans. They treat people the way they want to be treated. They also avoid mind games.
Are they selfish?
Straightforward:Sagittarians are considered to be straightforward. They do not like to hold anything back, which may not be liked by other people as whatever they speak can be harsh, but it would be definitely true. They also like to be independent and sometimes become dominating, which is why they are perceived sometimes as selfish. They are not liked by people who are highly organized and live a basic structured life because Sagittarians are reckless and carefree. They would always be late.
Reckless: People think they are selfish because of their lack of commitment. And even the Sagittarians do not care about it because of their care free nature. They like to learn, explore and gain wisdom, which is why people feel hurt when they do not bother about their feelings. And the most important part is that if they are hurt, they would not keep it to themselves; rather leave it and move on. So people feel that Sagittarians do not bother about their acts but in reality Sagittarians do so to remain happy and because of their optimistic attitude.
Disconnected: They generally do not show their emotions and so people feel they are egoistic, fake and superficial. They find it difficult to show love.
Lack of commitment: They are afraid of love affairs and do not wish to get married. They would avoid anything which might hold them back, even a love relationship. So people feel they are selfish and stay with them only to fulfil their own interests. However, it is not true, as the Sagittarians behave such only because of their love for freedom.
Carefree nature:
They are too honest and hurt others’ emotions and feelings. They are never proud neither do they ever boast of their achievements. They are broad-minded and have high standards. Generally people admire them. They would like to have open relationships, rather than serious ones. They are always curious to try something new, and you will be surprised to see them suddenly packing their bags and going for a trip, which is not planned. They would not care about anything if they decide something. Some people see them as snooty and superior but they are natural leaders.